When we are stressed and anxious, our Negative Automatic Thoughts (NATs) assault us involuntarily… the thoughts go round and round… they become more and more unhelpful and destructive – they cause us to ‘feel’ distressing emotions – this prevents us from doing things we wish we could/would – and of course procrastinating gives us even more time to think about all the NATs – this helps to confirm the NATs – and so it goes on and on and on… in a vicious circle…
Task: take a moment to consider the diagram below…
When stress becomes a disorder it causes a shift in thinking to ‘Bad Thinking Habits’ – so anxious and depressed people tend to have distorted thoughts and beliefs that cause inappropriate emotional and behavioural responses to even everyday situations – these are known as ‘negative automatic thoughts’, and have the following characteristics:
- They are not particularly realistic or logical
- They are thoughts and beliefs which increase negative feelings such as anxiety, low self-esteem, and stress
- The are self-sabotaging and self-defeating and self-limiting
- The neural circuitry is ‘hard-wired’, and happens ‘automatically’ (automatic thoughts)
Summary: Bad Thinking Habits are typically quick and involuntary, they are often negative or critical, and they tend to reinforce existing negative beliefs about oneself or the world.
This is where the vicious circle of negative automatic thinking comes into play. When we experience negative thoughts, they trigger unpleasant feelings, such as anxiety or sadness, which in turn lead to negative behaviors, such as avoidance or escape. These behaviors reinforce our negative thoughts, which in turn trigger more negative feelings and behaviors, creating a self-sustaining cycle. Over time, this cycle can become deeply ingrained, leading to a distorted and unhealthy way of thinking.
Luckily, there is a way out of this cycle. Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) is a proven treatment that can help individuals with anxiety disorders to break free from negative automatic thinking and develop more healthy and positive ways of thinking. Through the use of CBT handouts and worksheets, individuals can learn new techniques for challenging and distancing themselves from negative automatic thoughts, such as identifying and testing negative beliefs, or practicing mindfulness and relaxation techniques.
Veronica Walsh, a CBT therapist based in Dublin, specializes in low intensity CBT for individuals with anxiety disorders, offering support and guidance to help break the vicious circle of negative thinking. If you or someone you know is struggling with social anxiety or other anxiety disorders, consider seeking help and learning more about CBT and how it can help improve your quality of life. Remember, healthy thinking leads to feeling good!
View and download the following handouts and mini-workbooks to skill yourself up to use CBT and change your life: change your mind, change your mood…. what automatic negative thoughts of yours bring you on this circular journey?
- NEW – An introduction to Classic CBT – mini-workbook: Intro to classic CBT extract
- NEW – The CBT of Bad Thinking Habits – mini-workbook: cbt-top-10-bad-thinking-habits
- NEW – an intro to simple CBT journalling – mini-workbook : PDF extract
- NEW – A CBT mini workbook for awareness and self management of Social Anxiety
- NEW – CBT self talk mantra examples handout: CBT mantras handout scaled
- NEW – CBT mantra ideas in boxes with notes panel: CBT mantra box ideas
- NEW – The ‘ABC of CBT’ mini-workbook – – The ABC of CBT mini workbook
- NEW – the CBT of Public Speaking Anxiety mini-workbook: Public Speaking Anxiety extract
- The ABC example slides (office negative event) – CBT – ABC example response slides
- The ABC blank template form: abcd blank template form
- Identifying and linking Thoughts and Behaviours IdentifyingThinkingandBehaviour
- The Anxiety Mapping Page: anxiety-map-page
- The stress mapping table inc example: 4-strands-table-2
- Tracking your Body/Thoughts/Feelings/Behaviour habits through imagery: cbt-imagery-models
- CBT classic models – the negative predicting emoji handout: neg predicting circles diag
- What are Negative Automatic Thoughts (NATs)? CBTAFG_Extract_NATs
- A simple thought form (worksheet/handout): CBTAFG_ThoughtForm
Archive posts and downloads:
- — CBT Intro
- — Fight or Flight
- — When Stress Becomes a Disorder
- — Vicious Circle of Negative Thinking
- — Bad thinking habits – snapshot examples and solutions
- — Understanding Common Thinking Errors
- — Another CBT Look at Common Irrational Thinking Habits
- — The ABC of CBT – starter exercise…
- — ‘Demand’ Thinking
- — Do Thoughts Cause Feelings?
- — Managing ‘Emotional Reasoning’ with Thought Stopping
- — An easy start in The Basics of Mindfulness
- — 12 Irrational Beliefs and Disputing Statements
- — Silencing your Inner Critic
- – Accurate Self-assessment (Self-esteem)
- — Social Anxiety – Shyness & CBT
- — Negative Visualisation & Living in the Present
- — Constantly Seeking Reassurance
- — Communication Skills / Listening with Cognitive Awareness
- — CBT & Interview Anxiety
- — CBT & Dating
- — CBT in the Workplace
- — Smart Coping Skills for The Unemployed
- — Public Speaking Anxiety
- — Thought-stop & Relax with Mindfulness
- — A Mindmap of a CBT Workshop
- — Download Free CBT Worksheets/Handouts
- — Self-medicating With Alcohol
- — CBT Fight or Flight Journaling Handout
- — The Negative Effect of Unemployment on Mental Health
…. make a decision to work on challenging and replacing them with new healthy thinking with CBT!
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Thats me – the way I think alot of the time all right but its a bit of a trick to end or block such thoughts (reflections)
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Hi Simon.
Well blocking is not what we advise, but certainly, if you learn and apply CBT to examine and challenge and change your negative thinking, it is entirely possible (and proven) to develop new healthier thinking and end self sabotaging behaviours. It only requires an ability to self critique and be open minded about today’s findings on the science of thinking.
Like anything, you have to start from the beginning. Perhaps use this blog as a starting point, going to the ‘Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (Dublin, Ireland) – The Revolution in Psychotherapy – “thinking about thinking…”’ post first, and working your way downwards. There are links in my posts to recommended reading lists. And of course there are real life practitioners all over the world if you want more traditional one-to-one therapy. Give it a go, you’ve got nothing to lose!
Good luck.
Veronica
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